LEARNING TO EXPRESS GRATITUDE
Fulton J. Sheen wrote: "An interesting phenomenon in children is that gratitude or thankfulness comes relatively late in their young lives. They almost have to be taught it; if not, they grow up thinking that the world owes them a living." A friend once told me that she didn't want to force her son to say "Thank you" unless he really felt like it saying it. "If I teach him to say 'thank you' when he doesn't feel thankful, I'm teaching him that it's OK to be a hypocrite." That's not even close to what gratitude is. Our feelings have nothing to do with why we express it. Gratitude is not an emotion, it's an action. The act of saying "thank you" is for the benefit of the other person. It's about their feelings, not yours. The same is true when it comes to say "Thank you" to God. Thankfulness is the proper response to the goodness of God. We say "thank you" because ...